Situation: I work at a company but only part time on weekends, I have recently just in counted a girl who I used to go to school with. (Have not seen for about 5 years now and was year older than myself)
She is complete disarmingly beautiful and every time I see her, I just can’t quite mange to get out what needs to be said. The problem is that I am leaving the company soon and the chances of our paths meeting again are limited due to our set times.
My plan was to send some flowers with a note (unsure what to say) and then at least she knows how I feel. What I aiming for is something that is romantic, but not yet to cheesy or to thickly laid on.
Ladies out there what would make you feel special and wanted. And yet at the same time something that is not to stalker like. Time is against me so please reply quickly and any suggestion on where to buy and what type of flowers would be greatly appreciated.
Plus advice on note to be attached
What flowers should I send the girl in work? (Help !!!)?
Send her an orchid, it is thoughtful AND out of the ordinary. Roses are cheesy and carnations cheap.
As for the note, do you know anything more about her, if several years have passed, she may now be involved in a relationship.
Something along the lines of "It has been great bumping into you again and I would be love to keep in touch. Perhaps we could meet for lunch sometime soon" then leave your name and phone number.
This way, you are not being over personal and it gives you the opportunity to find out more about her and what has happened to her in the time since you last met. If it goes well, you could then invite her to dinner on another day.
Good luck
Reply:My advice. Don't send the flowers. Women like a man to be direct. Sending flowers is a romantic gesture but only if your going out. So just have at it and ask her directly she will like you more for it if you did. I mean how old are you anyway.
Reply:Carnations are always nice flowers to give a friend.
Something simple but expresses what you feel...like
"Being reunited with the most beautiful girl from high school was not something I expected when I started working here, but I'm so glad we crossed paths again and thanks for making me feel welcomed. (Your Name%26amp; #)
That's sweet, let's her take the next step, and can be seen as non-stalkerish
Reply:Write a poem (it can be as short or as long as you need it to be) and include it in with star gazer lillies (they smell great!), daisies, crysanthemums, and such. Pretty colors and beautiful smells.
Try something in your poem along the lines of:
Scent as lovely as lillies, brightening my day like the daisies...
Tell her that you are an admirer, would love the chance to talk with her, to hear the melody of her sweet voice.
Let her know who you are, definitely. That you remember her from your youth. You can include a nice photo of yourself, too.
Good luck!
Reply:If you behave like a lovesick puppy, with gooey eyes and hopeless unrequited romantic gestures she will have some justification in thinking you might be the local loony. Why the hell don't you just talk to the girl. Even if you think that you sound like a tongue tied idiot, you will gain far more respect for treating her as a person rather than an object from a fantasy. As you are at work, ask if you could share a coffee together, or maybe lunch, talk over old times. Let her talk, women are good at that, just be attentive. Ask her to have dinner with you, if she agrees, and you still want to send her flowers, have an orchid delivered to your table. She'll get the message.
Best of luck
Reply:Please do not send roses. They are so overrated!! I personally like Sunflowers or Daisies.
Maybe get her a nice bouqet!!!
Reply:Send a bouquet of mixed flowers, not roses (they are considered romantic). Nothing too big or expensive. And on the note just say "Her Name - I'd really like to take you out for dinner. How does this weekend sound. Sincerely, Your name" Remember- it's better to be more friend/casual then stalker...the LAST thing you should do is freak her out and sound stalkerish....
Reply:send her roses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
ROSES
Reply:Something considered to be a typical romantic flower like roses would be over the top and might make her feel awkward. Something friendly and sweet, like daises, would be much better. Talk to your local florist and I bet they could put something perfect together for you.
Reply:Definitely DO NOT send roses as that would scare her off. Any daisy like flowers (a mixed bouquet) of sorts but not pink. A mixture and Sainsburys do a beautiful mix of flowers at reasonable prices. Try not to get anything with lillies as the pollen can stain anything it comes into contact with.
As to the card maybe you could write something along the lines of that it was nice to meet her again after so long and it would be a shame to lose contact so would she like to go out for a coffee etc etc. Keep it as a daytime meet as an evening meet could be construed as a 'date'. With a daytime meet you could then get an idea of whether she would be interested to meet you in the evening.
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