Wednesday, February 15, 2012

My fiance wants no part in wedding planning, is this normal?

So we are planning on getting married and I have started to plan the wedding. I want us both to enjoy it so I ask my fiance his advice sometimes. He just shrugs it off and says he doesn't care about the wedding, just being married to me. Well thats fine but I do need some input from him right? He even got mad at me earlier today because I ran an idea about a wedding location by him! He said "I told you I don't care about this stuff" Is this normal or what? Has anyone else planned a wedding without their fiances? I mean I understand him not wanting to pick out flowers and colors and stuff, but basic stuff like wedding location and vows and stuff wth!!

My fiance wants no part in wedding planning, is this normal?
No it's not uncommon for some groom-to-be's to yield all of the wedding planning to the bride-to-be. I would suggest you sit down and have one last talk with your fiance openly and candidly. Let him know that while you understand he is not interested in the general aspects of wedding planning you would like to know if there are some specific plans he would like to be included on (i.e., rings, tuxedos, limos, cake testing) since his opinion is important to him (be sure to give him specific examples of how he can be involved). If he specifies a few things, then include him in the planning of them and just inform him what your final decisions are on the rest. If he doesn't specify anything, I would continue planning things but base your opinions on things that he would also like even though he isn't very involved in the planning since you should have some general ideas of his likes and dislikes (favor drink, color, meal, etc.). Plus you can always get opinions from your wedding party and parents if you would need suggestions if he's not particularly interested. And even if your fiance decides not to take an active role, still let him know how important it is to you that he at least listens when you want to inform him of the final decisions you make. I'm sure he'll be willing to do this if you let him know that you won't overwhelm him with wedding plans on a daily basis.
Reply:I know exactly where you are coming from! I am planning my wedding and have been for the past 8 months and I have had no help my my fiance. I guess it is normal for them to just not care but he is even paying for everything and still doesn't want anything to do with planning. Not even does he want to help with registering for gifts. I have been doing it all without him and I am at the point now where I just leave it alone. I guess its more of a womans thing than a mans. I totally know how you feel though. Congrats on your upcoming wedding and goodluck with planning!
Reply:My fiance really doesn't care that much, either. All he really cares about is the food and the bar, and I did give him a few tasks, one of which was the Tuxes for him %26amp; the other guys, and the gifts for the groomsmen. Other than that, its "whatever you want, honey." It does help alot that way........
Reply:When I was planning my wedding (we got married last August) my husband was part of everything! He REALLY wanted to have it at a cool place and he wanted everything to look nice...he knew I could have done it on my own, but he wanted to be apart of it too. He picked out the tuxes and colors and everything. I wouldn't have it any other way...if he didn't care about the wedding, I probably wouldn't have married him! It was a pretty special day, and was even more so because it was something we did together.
Reply:Thank your lucky stars you get to have the pick! Mine is too interested. I told him choosing colors and cakes and decos is girls stuff and that I may consult with him about the choosing, but he is not going to tell me what colors and such we are going to have. lol
Reply:Sad yes, abnormal no
Reply:Is this normal? In a word, yes. Many men just want to know where they're supposed to show up and what time. Don't run ideas by him. Make the decision, and say "We're going to have our reception here. OK?" He'll speak up if he has an issue with something, but just proceed without him otherwise. However, ask for his input for the tuxes.
Reply:yes, but still ask his advice and stuff. You and he are paying for the wedding, after all!
Reply:Men tend to view weddings as an ending, a death (of thier bachelor lifestyle/freedom); while women view it as a new beginning, a birth (the fulfilment of purpose). Not to say he doesn't love you; it merely is not an event to be celebrated, just accepted. Like a father who gives away his daughter. On one hand he's glad and looks forward to grandkids; but on the other he doesn't like knowing someone is having sex with his daughter.


Just let him celebrate this new phase of life in his way, and you in yours. The key to a happy marriage is agreeing to disagree and acceptance. We men are simple creatures and you women tend to read waaay too much into our simple acts. Start working on acceptance now and maybe this marriage will stick...
Reply:This is normal for a guy. Especially if he is not paying.





If he doesn't want to plan it don't force him to.
Reply:My fiancee doesnt care about any of the stuff either, if we had it his way we woudl have run off to vegas months ago. I would say the only things you need him for is The tuxes, registering for gifts (at least get a list of what he wants from him) and the honeymoon planning. But i would also tell him that you need him to just listen to you talk about it sometimes. He should be able to do that for you. Mine patenently listens to me talk about all this stuff and i say what do you think and he shrugs or says whatever you want. He is excited about the wedding its just guys dont put a lot of thought into it. They just want to marry you and party really.
Reply:Yea that's kinda weird. Most guys don't care about girlie details but being completely uninvolved is not good. You need to discuss this with him and tell him how it makes you feel. If he doesn't respond well to that then maybe you need to consider what kind of husband he will make.
Reply:it may be a tad extreme, but I know my fiance could care less, he has told me numerous times that this is my wedding and I can have it, I think he just doesn't wanna deal with it all, so I understand.....he does have to get over it to an extent when it comes to things like his wedding party and who he invites, he has to tell you these things but beyond that, don't be surprised if its completely up to you!
Reply:It is completely normal. It is rare to have the guy actually interested, they just show up. You'll find this after the wedding also, they don't fret about plans, gifts etc. On Christmas Eve I would ask my husband would you like to know what the kids are opening tomorrow and what you are giving your family members.
Reply:Most men are like this..they just want to know what time they should be there.
Reply:This is a look into how things are gonna be with your husband. He should at least be taking some interest in the wedding planning. Maybe he's just not into getting married even though he said he only cares about being married to you. And when its time to do things around the house like cooking and cleaning he'll use the same excuse. He doesn't care about those things cause he knows you'll take of it all. Put your foot down and demand he take interest in the wedding planning.
Reply:What you mean their are different types of flowers?? LOL


Yes, it's normal... Guy do not care. Just involve him in the parts he will like picking out the booze and food testing. That's all my guy cares about. Mine doesn't even know where the wedding is..... he hasn't seen it yet!! LOL But he came to the cake testing :)





Guys don't care about girly little details like flowers and colors.
Reply:While it's not "normal" it's typically a "guy" thing. Let's face it, the wedding IS 99.44/100% about the bride. And, think of the satisfaction you'll get when he has to participate in the rehearsal. Remember the old adage "If you want something done right, do it yourself". Just try not to become a "bridezilla" because it can be stressful. Best of wishes for a long and happy marriage after your perfectly planned wedding.
Reply:Men!





I knew when we got engaged that my husband would have ZERO interest in planning. I didn't push the issue much with him. I told him it was his day, too and he had a say in the decisions we made. But while I didn't want to bore him with things he didn't care about, I didn't want him to feel like I was taking his day away from him, either. So we compromised. I told him I felt he needed to meet the photographer %26amp; videographer we were hiring, as they'd be with us all day, and we both needed to like them. Those were key. Aside from that, I made arrangements for things like the cake, the invitations, etc. and then told him what I was doing and when, and gave him the option to get involved or not. I told him he was free to pass, but if he didn't like what I picked, too bad. :) When I got to the invitations, his eyes glazed over when he saw that book. I picked out five I really liked and then he actually picked his favorite from those (so HE did the wedding invitations!!).





I guess at the end of the day, it's all in how you spin it to him. For me, giving my hubby the option on each decision worked. Some things he did, some he didn't. The best thing I can tell you is to talk to him - but don't bug him to help you. It's not worth the stress!!! Good luck!!
Reply:Its very normal. Its like your fiance asking you to be involved in picking out a new engine for his car. You wouldn't know where to start and you wouldn't have much interest in doing so. Guys see weddings as a girls thing, something they want to be a part of on the actual day but not so much leading up to the day. You can't expect a man to want to be involved with picking out flowers, and dress colors... otherwise is he was interested you would be marrying a gay man.
Reply:That is sad that he does not want to participate or support you in one of the most important day of your lives.


I wonder how he will be at the birth of your children.
Reply:some men just want no part of planning they think it will make them lose there cool. I myself planned alot of my wedding day but I also was a cook at the hotel I worked at so I worked on the whole catering with my boss. Some guys like doing it others feels it is the brides place to do it all. Think of it this way buy him not helping he won't no how much money you are spending lol. Congrats and just be happy you have found your knight in shining armor. God Bless.
Reply:Apparently he has issues about the wedding. But also, you may be overdoing it a bit and he might be getting tired of the whole thing. How about downplaying it for awhile.
Reply:You know what, it is a blessing in disguise. Don't fight over his not wanting to be a part of the planning...just let it be. Just make sure that he likes the wedding location and church. Other than that, girl do your thing. He will need a little input on his tux, but you pick the color of the tux and the groomsmen's tux too. Don't worry it will be fine. It like decorating a home. My husband gives me free reign and doesn't want to be involved in interior decorating. As long as he has his comfortable chair in the den, he is very happy. So I go and pick out what I want..and spend within the limit he gave and it always turns out beautiful. He values my opinion because he is color blind...what could he tell me about color and style. So if he doesn't care about the planning...as long as he shows up on your wedding day dressed up in his tux and he loves and adores you and will make a good husband in every other way...drop the complaining..don't mention it anymore and go about your wedding plans. It is not that important for you to fight with him over this. It will be just fine.
Reply:Mine was the same way, although he did do somethings that I asked him...although the majority of the time it was like pulling teeth...lol!





He did do all the guys stuff on his own...although did wait until I hounded him enough about it...I guess he finally got tired of me hounding him about it.





He's been helping me with putting together the ceremony part. Like I'll pick out two verses that I like and then he has the "final" say, which ever on he likes best out of the two (or however many) I liked.





Try and get him involved in the important things...like reception area...ceremony...food...music. Other things just let him be...like colors...centerpieces...favors...things like that.





Good luck!
Reply:My fiancee and I had a similar problem. I would talk to him about an idea I had and he would shoot it down or ignore me altogether. He actually came up with a solution: Wednesday Wedding Night. It sounds dorky but what we do is go to a cafe to get away from the distractions at our house and go over the wedding plans together.
Reply:Its completely normal! My boyfriend told me that anything that makes me happy will make him happy. All he wants to do is get fitted for his tux and show up. Then we decided on a destination wedding with just our parents, siblings and my son.


I think most guys are like that. They have already been through picking out your ring, asking your dad for your hand and planning a proposal. He probably feels like he's been through enough of it and is just ready to get married. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you or your feelings or the wedding. That's just how guys are. Girls think about this their whole lives. Guys...DO NOT. Its natural. Don't worry. At least he can't say later on that he didn't like this or he didn't like that about the wedding cause he didn't want to have a say in it. :) Keep your chin up girl!
Reply:I guess I'm a bit of a weirdo, because I liked being a part of all that stuff with my wife. It made me feel closer to her, and she appreciated the input. The funny thing is, the more we planned, the more we realized we were going to be paying out thousands and thousands, so we ditched the big wedding plan, had a small gathering in Vegas, and spent all that money on the honeymoon! It was a blast, and we planned that together too!
Reply:my husband could careless about these things too.i don't view it as a problem.think of it like this.......it's your day and everything should be your way (everybody expects this anyhow)you're the bride!!!!!!if he's content to show up, marvel at your beauty,say "i do",and let you have what you want .......where's the problem????? don't ride him about it ,because he"ll just start resenting the wedding all together.make your decisions and enjoy your wedding if he's willing to let you make all the decisions ,he trusts you and will respect what choices you make .not all men care about colors ,flowers, and cake.some are just content to have what they are given.congrats.
Reply:It is not normal and you NEED to let him know that you are not getting married by yourself therefore you should not be planning the wedding by yourself.


Can i get some info on "epicalyx"?

its a part of a flower

Can i get some info on "epicalyx"?
Ditionary meaning of 'Epicalyx '



A series of bracts subtending and resembling a calyx, as in the carnation and hibiscus.



The noun has one meaning:



Meaning #1: a group of bracts simulating a calyx as in a carnation or hibiscus

Synonyms: false calyx, calycle, calyculus





See pictures on the links below by clicking on them==

http://www.csdl.tamu.edu/FLORA/tfplab/ep...



http://www.life.uiuc.edu/help/digitalflo...



http://www.pinkmonkey.com/studyguides/su...
Reply:Sepals are modified leaves which enclose and protect the other parts of the flower in the bud stage. All the sepals together make up the calyx. Some flowers, example the hibiscus have another layer of floral leaves outside the sepals, which make up the epicalyx of the flower.


Defence of Lucretius: Please can you comment on this paragraph?

A pathless country of the Pierides I traverse, where no other foot has ever trod. I love to approach virgin springs an there to drink; I love to pluck new flowers, and to seek an illustrious chaplet for my head from fields whence before this the Muses have crowned the brows of none: first because my teachings is of high matters, and I proceed to set free the mind from the close knots of superstition; next because the subject is so dark and the verses I write so clear, touching every part with the Muses’ grace. For even this seems not to be out of place; but as with children, when physicians try to administer rank wormwood, they first touch the rim of the cups all about with the sweet yellow fluid of honey, that unthinking childhood may be deluded as far as the lips, and meanwhile that they may drink up the bitter juice of wormwood, and though beguiled not betrayed, but rather by such a means be restored and regain health.

Defence of Lucretius: Please can you comment on this paragraph?
he speaks of loneliness or at least feeling alone and experiencing things that no one else has in the first line. it is a feeling he has grown accustomed to and even enjoys.



his enjoyments are bittersweet and innocent; drinking from virgin springs, plucking new flowers. He pursues a carefree world view, which suggests to me that his life is more complicated, more grey than black and white as he would wish for himself. lonely pursuits were his priority at the moment he wrote this, not family, not politics, not future.



mention of the Pierides betrays that he is Cypriot or loves Cyprus and that it was sparsely populated at the time, so this poem is old. There are still not that many people living in cyprus but there are enough to make this man's wishes impossible.



he is interested in recording an original idea through art and he admits this much and describes why: first because he thinks he is highly educated and not superstitious (no religious leanings?) next because what he is writing about; which is not this poem, is a dark subject which he feels that he tackles successfully.



he hopes to do for the world what the physician he describes does for the children, convinced that although it might be uncomfortable it would be for their eventual good "restored and regain health", so he hopes that the muses will help him deliver his idea sweetly despite its dark subject and content and he hopes that what he delivers will have a similar effect, "beguiled not betrayed" on his intended subjects that wormwood had on the children.



at first glance i think that this is either the whole of the piece he intended to write. it strikes me as if he intended this to be the actual or part of a larger body of work much like Milton's Paradise Lost, where he too called upon a higher authority bless his efforts and help him deliver where he himself might not suffice.
Reply:The religious inference is almost Jehovah like in an understated fashion, coupled with the freedom of self enlightenment and the imparting of knowledge and understanding to those yet to be freed from their own shortcomings.

The pill may be bitter to swallow - trust me for I know that eventually you will see the truth.
Reply:I can't believe they fed wormwood to children. I have "drank a cupful" of wormwood and had a very long, colorful, psychadelic trip. Amazing. I wonder what it was prescribed to children for?
Reply:Hi George,

it talks first of purity

of places and things never

touched or seen before,

the innonence of life.



And then he uses children,

the innocent who need to

be 'tricked' by honey to so they

may drink the bitter juice of wormwood,

to heal - the key word here are not betrayed

by beguiled.



Hope it helps
Reply:From a man that wrote .Quote It is pleasant to stand on the shore and watch the struggles of men in a storm tossed boat.

I think they should have named him ludicrous
Reply:do you know what time of the day it is in the uk to late to be thinking of deep things like that


What flowers should I send the girl in work? (Help !!!)?

Note: Please only serious advice.



Situation: I work at a company but only part time on weekends, I have recently just in counted a girl who I used to go to school with. (Have not seen for about 5 years now and was year older than myself)



She is complete disarmingly beautiful and every time I see her, I just can’t quite mange to get out what needs to be said. The problem is that I am leaving the company soon and the chances of our paths meeting again are limited due to our set times.



My plan was to send some flowers with a note (unsure what to say) and then at least she knows how I feel. What I aiming for is something that is romantic, but not yet to cheesy or to thickly laid on.



Ladies out there what would make you feel special and wanted. And yet at the same time something that is not to stalker like. Time is against me so please reply quickly and any suggestion on where to buy and what type of flowers would be greatly appreciated.



Plus advice on note to be attached

What flowers should I send the girl in work? (Help !!!)?
Send her an orchid, it is thoughtful AND out of the ordinary. Roses are cheesy and carnations cheap.

As for the note, do you know anything more about her, if several years have passed, she may now be involved in a relationship.

Something along the lines of "It has been great bumping into you again and I would be love to keep in touch. Perhaps we could meet for lunch sometime soon" then leave your name and phone number.

This way, you are not being over personal and it gives you the opportunity to find out more about her and what has happened to her in the time since you last met. If it goes well, you could then invite her to dinner on another day.



Good luck
Reply:My advice. Don't send the flowers. Women like a man to be direct. Sending flowers is a romantic gesture but only if your going out. So just have at it and ask her directly she will like you more for it if you did. I mean how old are you anyway.
Reply:Carnations are always nice flowers to give a friend.

Something simple but expresses what you feel...like

"Being reunited with the most beautiful girl from high school was not something I expected when I started working here, but I'm so glad we crossed paths again and thanks for making me feel welcomed. (Your Name%26amp; #)

That's sweet, let's her take the next step, and can be seen as non-stalkerish
Reply:Write a poem (it can be as short or as long as you need it to be) and include it in with star gazer lillies (they smell great!), daisies, crysanthemums, and such. Pretty colors and beautiful smells.



Try something in your poem along the lines of:



Scent as lovely as lillies, brightening my day like the daisies...



Tell her that you are an admirer, would love the chance to talk with her, to hear the melody of her sweet voice.



Let her know who you are, definitely. That you remember her from your youth. You can include a nice photo of yourself, too.



Good luck!
Reply:If you behave like a lovesick puppy, with gooey eyes and hopeless unrequited romantic gestures she will have some justification in thinking you might be the local loony. Why the hell don't you just talk to the girl. Even if you think that you sound like a tongue tied idiot, you will gain far more respect for treating her as a person rather than an object from a fantasy. As you are at work, ask if you could share a coffee together, or maybe lunch, talk over old times. Let her talk, women are good at that, just be attentive. Ask her to have dinner with you, if she agrees, and you still want to send her flowers, have an orchid delivered to your table. She'll get the message.



Best of luck
Reply:Please do not send roses. They are so overrated!! I personally like Sunflowers or Daisies.



Maybe get her a nice bouqet!!!
Reply:Send a bouquet of mixed flowers, not roses (they are considered romantic). Nothing too big or expensive. And on the note just say "Her Name - I'd really like to take you out for dinner. How does this weekend sound. Sincerely, Your name" Remember- it's better to be more friend/casual then stalker...the LAST thing you should do is freak her out and sound stalkerish....
Reply:send her roses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1



ROSES
Reply:Something considered to be a typical romantic flower like roses would be over the top and might make her feel awkward. Something friendly and sweet, like daises, would be much better. Talk to your local florist and I bet they could put something perfect together for you.
Reply:Definitely DO NOT send roses as that would scare her off. Any daisy like flowers (a mixed bouquet) of sorts but not pink. A mixture and Sainsburys do a beautiful mix of flowers at reasonable prices. Try not to get anything with lillies as the pollen can stain anything it comes into contact with.



As to the card maybe you could write something along the lines of that it was nice to meet her again after so long and it would be a shame to lose contact so would she like to go out for a coffee etc etc. Keep it as a daytime meet as an evening meet could be construed as a 'date'. With a daytime meet you could then get an idea of whether she would be interested to meet you in the evening.

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  • 1-800-flowers lawsuit?

    What do you think of a man getting divorced who sues 1-800-flowers for faxing his wife a copy of the receipt?



    #1) He didn't set up his own sole %26amp; separate account with an address where he lives apart from his wife, so 1-800-flowers had no way to know it wasn't ok to fax a copy of the bill to his home address



    #2) His attorney gets on the Today Show on national TV this morning and claims this mistake will cost him half a million dollars in spousal support.



    I keep asking why his attorney would publicly ask us to pity him. If it will cost him half a million on spousal support, then the man should have enough income to

    - live separately from his soon-to-be-ex

    - set up his own sole and separate credit card accounts

    - set up his own sole and separate account with 1-800-flowers

    - think before he acts



    While it will cause him distress in his divorce, why should 1-800-flowers pay part of his divorce costs? Didn't he get himself into the divorce without their help?

    1-800-flowers lawsuit?
    You have lost sight of something. In today's world, everything that you have mentioned is besides the point. This is a suit happy world that we live in today. People can sue over literally everything and do. I suspect that this man is less interested in what he will lose by divorce and more interested in what he will gain to replace it through the suit. Case in point... Woman buys hot coffee at McDonald's while driving a car, she spills it when placing it between her legs. (Then collects money because even though she ordered hot coffee, the cup didn't say "hot" on the outside. And wins!) Man climbs into bear pit at zoo to retrieve a child's toy (Then sues when the bear bites his a s s. And wins!) Regardless of how stupid these suits are (or the people making them), the point is that until our courts waken up to these shysters, it will continue to get more and more ridicules. The only thing that would make me feel any better with the suit that you mentioned would be if the judge could order this man to refrain from being with any women for the next 10 years! Maybe that would make the guy actually think a little before suing anyone over such a stupid and so obvious mistake on his part.
    Reply:Right after seeing he and his attorney on the today show, and right after laughing uncontrollably, I asked a question about this myself. Lets see, he cheats; he's dumb enough to leave a paper trail to his home; how is this dude even smart enough to HAVE a half million. Did he inherit or what. Roflmho.
    Reply:He's looking to blame someone other than himself, I guess. What an idiot! How could 1-800-flowers possible be at fault?



    ALthough with the way this justice system works, a good lawyer can probably get a settlement out of this. But it's not the florists place to ask, (although this may be the case in the near future if this goes through, like the "caution: Hot liquid" on the outside of McDonalds coffee cups. Duh!) The florist is now going to have to ask if this is for you wife or mistress, so they can cover their asses.



    This is stupid. This guy's pissed becasue he got caught.
    Reply:Typical male, lookin for someone else to blame
    Reply:Guess it'd have to be in America where the garbos will sue you for putting your toenail clippings in the trash....
    Reply:i think its great he got busted! it his own doings not the flower company
    Reply:I am amazed at how this message is extremely biased towards the man. I think people should wait for the full facts of the case to come out before assuming it was "his" fault.



    It does not appear he has done anything wrong as he appeared to already be in the process of getting divorced from his wife and is allowed to move on.



    In any case, if the company actually did promise not to send anything to his home at the time he made his purchase, as the story states, then they have broken their promise and privacy laws when sending information to a third party. I say this as there is no indication so far that there was any kind of joint account.



    To sum up the information so far, a male has placed an order and requested no information be sent to his address, a thank you card was sent, a female called back requesting more information and then all the details were sent to her.



    I don't think this should be a 1 million dollar lawsuit but the company certainly should take some responsibility for what I consider to be their inappropriate actions based on what is known so far - which is not much!
    Reply:What a pathetic human being...I wouldn't of even bothered suing 1-800-flowers for this it's his own fault he couldn't keep his dick in his pants...I have a funny feeling that his wife wasn't so much mad that he had ordered flowers for his slut but that he had a slut!!! This guy is a joke...bet you he doesn't get a cent from the company.
    Reply:There is no way he will win the suit against 1-800-flowers.

    1.) 1-800-flowers has an obligation to their clients to deliver flowers etc and when payment and delivery has been made to ensure a reciept is issued for that transaction. This is a legal requirement for tax purposes. They have abided by their obligations in respect for the transaction.

    2.) 1-800-flowers is obligated when it comes to accounts to notify all parties on the account to any purchases made on the account.

    The way in which his wife found out he is having an affair has no bearing on wether or not he has to pay spousal maintenance.

    His mistake has now obviously caused him some embarrasement and he is looking for someone to blame for him getting caught. He committed adultry. The courts don't look kindly on that and the fact that he is now trying to blame someone else for his actions... give him a shovel. He'll need it.
    Reply:Yeah someone is angry because he screwwed up big and wants to blame someone else for his problems, from what I can tell the woman is so much better off without him
    Reply:lol....talk about a frivolous law suit!! That's just crazy!
    Reply:This guy simply got caught cheating and now wants someone else to blame. The smart cookie is his wife, who upon learning of his infidelity asked for more money in her divorce settlement. Good girl. She deserves every dime she can get out of this cheating loser.
    Reply:hew'll get nothing if the credit card was in both names...his attorney is a glory hound and in the end the guy will look stupid not only in his wifes eyes but now the nation.
    Reply:you are so right, he deserves to pay ouot, I hope he receives nothing from the lawsuit.


    I don't know what I'm supposed to do being a homecoming attendant...?

    I'm one of 3 senior boy homecoming attendants and since I've never really payed attention to what happens I don't really know what to do. Should I match the color of the dress of the counter part senior girl attendant? Am I supposed to get this girl flowers? Is a long sleeve button shirt with tie and dress pants what I'm supposed to wear? Honestly, since I've never gone to a homecoming dance ever and since I didn't really care previously in the first place, I don' t really know about this stuff. Can anyone answer these questions and give me some tips?

    I don't know what I'm supposed to do being a homecoming attendant...?
    What areyou supposed to do?

    You smile prettily on the float. That's about it.



    Ask the Homecoming Committee what the guys are supposed to wear. I'm sure that they have already chosen this.



    If not, please don't try to match your partner's dress, but also don't wear something that clashes. You can't go wrong with a dark suit in navy or black. Or dark jacket and pants with a dress suit and tie, if you don't own a suit.



    Good luck! Have fun!


    Argh!! Anyone know where I can find audiobooks for vc andrews? I founda few torrents.I'm looking for more!!

    So far I've dowloaded part of the flower's in the attic series, i've gotten The Landry series, The Casteel series, Shooting stars, My sweet Audrina and Forever fifteen.! I've been searching for about 10 years or so to find them!

    Argh!! Anyone know where I can find audiobooks for vc andrews? I founda few torrents.I'm looking for more!!
    ask at the library. we have lots of recorded books.